Tales from Cat's House of Homeschooled Kits!

Video games get a bad rap, can be all consuming, and expensive. My guys can so into a game  they forget to eat or pee. At the same time, they stimulate so many ideas and cooperation. They work together to find solutions t beat the came. On the monetary front, every time a “new” version of something comes out my kids want to have it. Thankfully they have allowance. If they have the money, they can get it if not well, there is always next week.

Games have been at the center of many heated conversations in our house. My older son would spend all day every day playing them. The older he gets the more he wants us to treat him like an adult, which to him means “Let me do what I want.” School work doesn’t get done, chores don’t get done, exercise is not even on the radar. 

They can be my friend when some critical things need to happen. If something has to get done and the guys are in their “We don’t have anything fun to do!” mode, I let them extra game time so I can focus on the issue and resolve it. It’s like the box of phone toys my friend kept on a shelf. When you have to be on the phone, down they come, the toddlers are enthralled because they don’t see these all the time. The mission gets accomplished quickly and without distractions.

Then there is the cost. Games for the Wii are about $50.00 new. Handheld game system games run about $30.00. This is very irritating when a “new” version comes out. I say “new” because I’m convinced that only 5% of the game is different from the last release. They have us parents over a barrel. 

It may sound like I hate games. I do have a healthy disdain for some of these video induced side effects. Surprisingly, each of these has major upsides! The all consuming foe has taught my boys about budgeting time and getting things done. They figured out that getting what needs to be done, done, they are free to do what they like. I also noticed that their time spent drawing and playing out side is on the increase too.

Friend, well, that is pretty much the same. However, like on the foe side of things, they game out. We used the games while traveling. After the first delay, I was so thankful they had something to keep them occupied until the plane arrived and it was time to board. After a while they wanted to read and tell each other stories. Later they wrote some of them down!

As for breaking the bank, they’ve learned a great lesson there too. They have learned to budget and plan for what they want. An essential lesson in the current financial climate. They have set priorities for games, movies, books, and other things they’d like to buy. They will even pool their money of items that are more expensive, cooperation expanded! 

Mostly what amazes me is how much they did on their own. Yes, my husband and I set limits and some goals for school work, but my kids have really internalized how to get things done. They have practiced wise spending, cooperation, responsibility, creativity, and critical thinking. It is easy to write something off has all bad for you, brain-mushing, and a waste of time, but it isn’t always totally true.